This is a choice about emphasis. It is not a hard ban on serious subjects.
"Strike up" is still valid English with a serious or hard topic. It describes the social opening, not the topic's tone. In a solemn setting, you may want to stress the event. Then "opened" or "started a conversation" can fit better.
Which part of the moment do you want to emphasize?
"I struck up a conversation about the layoffs" is grammatical. It may sound casual because "strike up" highlights the human opening. That focus may fit a personal reflection or caring story. However, it may weaken the weight of a formal announcement.
The choice is not about correctness. It is about which part of the moment matters most.
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"I struck up a conversation with a teammate about the layoffs over coffee, because I didn't want her to hear it secondhand" — keeps "strike up" because the personal opening is the main point.
"I opened a conversation with the team about the upcoming layoffs" — replaces "strike up" with "opened" to stress the seriousness of a formal announcement. A social frame could weaken that gravity.
"She struck up a difficult but necessary conversation with the team about the missed deadline" — keeps "strike up" with a serious topic. The topic's seriousness does not make the grammar invalid.
Practice scenarios
Practice using strike up in situations like:
- writing a personal, compassionate account of a difficult conversation
- drafting a formal announcement about the same difficult topic
- deciding whether a serious topic still allows strike up, or calls for a plainer verb
Useful practice phrases:
- "I struck up a conversation about [difficult topic] because..."
- "I opened a conversation with the team about..."
- "She struck up a difficult but necessary conversation about..."
A hard topic does not disqualify strike up. It changes what your sentence may need to stress.
Keep the human opening when that is the point. Otherwise, foreground the seriousness.
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